Training a slave for my enjoyment....

Unless and until I've trained you, stop telling me that you're an experienced slave! What are you experienced in? Unless we've been together, you know absolutely nothing about me, or even in what ways I enjoy being served.

Just because you've played with a pro-domme a few times in her dungeon, it doesn't make you qualified to be slave material for ME to play with. Maybe if you'd said this statement 10 years ago, when I was just a slip of a lass, AND when the only dommes around were SERIOUS players, who although they charged for their sessions, happened to all be lifestyle dominas, it would have then meant something. However, going by today's standards, and how many thousands of women have decided to "cash in" on "playing" dominant, bitchy, aggressive and kinky... sheer quantity, does not equal quality.

A lot of these women online, don't even have a clue what it is, that THEY themselves want. How can they possibly train you, if they haven't even taken the time to get to know themselves inside and out, and figured out what turns them on, makes them tick, gets their mojo flowing, or stimulates not only their minds, but their libidos! It's so STUPID! For the majority of the women on the net today, they're looking to cash in on a fast buck, taking advantage of really stupid men.

A man is so fixated on his own FANTASY, that he gladly reiterates it, usually verbateum, as to how he's played it out in his mind for the last 10-20 years. He knows what words & actions will stimulate his orgasm, and the more stupid creatures among them, are only to happy to spill their guts to the "domme of their dreams".... while handing over several crisp one hundred dollar bills.... D'Oh!!! She, like a good actress, then plays it back to him, or if they're in a session, and his thing is "OTK spanking", she puts him over her knee, and spanks him, and if she's any good, she'll remember the key phrases that he's dropped in on the conversation, while he's trying to force the session along to his liking. So, yeah he got what he originally wanted, I guess.. to achieve orgasm (hopefully) while being spanked, (and yanked along) by a woman who turned him on.

That's hardly being submissive, or a slave, is it? It's also got nothing to do with female domination.

Then you come along to ME, now not only do I have to train you to stop wanting the thing you think it is that you want, but because you've honed your day-dreaming jerk off fantasy so well and for so damn long, you may not realise that in the long run, my way of true dominance will actually pay off. I mean you really have no idea of other things that may induce off the wall orgasms, because you never get out of your box.

Those of you who have been essentially paying to have your fantasy re-created are really not submissive, nor slave potential at all. You're also more than a little dumb, because this fantasy that you've created in your head for so long, can never truly be pulled off in reality. Reality is never as good as fantasy... that's why it's fantasy. Trust me on this.

Have you ever heard a drug addict say that they keep doing it because they want the feeling of their first high to return? Well that's not going to happen either, but still they keep chasing it - hoping that the fantasy of it, will trump their reality. Not so.. their reality is usually so fucked up, and they're at their utmost bottom, but still here they are thinking there is a small chance that the fantasy can be achieved...

SO.. for all you guys who have gone from domme, to domme, to domme, and tried unsuccessfully (which doesn't mean you didn't cum.... it just means it wasn't *as* good, as you *think* it could have been)... you need to leave the fantasy behind, and open yourself up to actually learning what it is the domina in question has in store for you, and what rocks her world. When you cum from that.... that will be your new high, your new reality, your new fantasy, and you will actually be a slave to her, in the true sense of the word.

When you start thinking about ways in which you can please your domina, and how if last night you think you really rocked her world, figuring out how to make it rock even better next time you see her, then you're living a submissive's life. When you get goose-bumps from knowing that you made her smile & wondering if she'll reward you in her own special way later, that's when you are truly her slave.

Remember though - the dominatrix that you choose needs to truly be a domina, and not just "fantasizing or playing" at being one to make a quick buck! The real domina will probably not be interested in "weak", or "stupid" or "mindless" men. She will have a sharp, keen intellect and will want her slave to match or exceed hers.

Strong men, with good character and of fairly good intelligence should apply here! I will make sure that everytime you're with me, you will rock my world.

I wish I could come up with some kind of a test that everyone has to take in order to publish anything that suggests they are a femdom, or into female domination.