Thursday, February 23, 2006

My alternative lifestyle.. and orgasm control...

God it's been a whirlwind of a week for me! I joined ALT last week sometime, (like right before Valentine's Day) and I've been having so much fun with it, I haven't even had time to check new mail, or post to my blog, or any of the yahoo groups I belong to, including my own! I'm sure my friends, think I'm dead in a warehouse someplace!

I met Eric first. Nice quiet, polite, intelligent submissive from Northern Virginia. I've played with him almost every day for the last 9 days! It's been quite intense ;-) We started out meeting at 11am for a drink at Rio Grande in Gaithersburg as one of my friends has an apartment right there, and I was cat sitting for her. After a few drinks, and lunch, and me sussing out that he's not going to be able to overpower me, and that's he's not raving mad, I took him back to her place -- (Sorry Lisa...)

We talked for a while, and I found out that he had a lot of similar interests. He's VERY submissive. He wants to serve (and when I say that, I mean he wants to put the best interests of his Mistress first, and work at whatever she wants, needs, or desires to have in her life).... He'd also read a bit about male orgasm denial, and enforced chastity. I LOVE THIS! I totally think that men are only truly able to serve when they are denied, and sexually frustrated. Men who have orgasms daily are lazy, and unproductive, and certainly they are unattentive to a ladies needs. Guys who get off, just want to relax or sleep after orgasm, and the last thing that they want to do is be forced to any physical or even mental activity. Which is why so many women are left sexually unfulfilled. Women can channel that sexual energy until she herself has cum multiple times, and then if she still denies him a release, she can manipulate him more and more into doing things that she wants.

Denying orgasm in men, makes them hornier quicker, and thus, they are much, much, easier to control & manipulate. The fastest way to break a man's will, is through his penis, and denying orgasms is a quick way to achieve obedience in any man. Male orgasm denial is all about control, and if you control his orgasm, you ultimately will control him.

So, while Eric was with me, I put on a simple, inexpensive cock cage, with a lock. He would NOT be allowed to pleasure himself, this was going to be all about me! Before putting it on, I shaved his pubic hair, and then locked him into it. I get totally off just knowing that I control it, and that his penis is now mine! HA HA HA! LOL

He wore it for almost 24 hours that first day. This was also the first day ever that Eric had not masturbated at least once. That first day Eric must have given me about 4 hours of oral sex. It was SO good. I allowed him to lick my ass and my cunt often during those first 24 hours. Listening to him beg for release was such a turn on. I decided also that since we were using Lisa's apartment, that he could clean it for her. We went to the Target across the street, and I made Eric purchase all sorts of cleaning supplies, and every so often I'd brush up against him. I could feel his cock straining to get out of the chastity device, and I'm sure it was nipping him.

Later around 5ish I told Eric that I was going to go have a pedicure & a tanning session, and that while I was gone, he was to make the apartment sparkle. I was gone for about 2 hours, and when I returned, it certainly sparkled. Everything looked beautiful. Eric was going to be a good domestic house boy for me.

As we talked more, and I told Eric the things I like & what gets me off sexually, he was almost drooling, begging to be allowed to serve me in a long term relationship. It was almost 10pm by that time, and he'd been locked up for almost 12 hours at this point. I sent him over to California Pizza Kitchen to pick up dinner for us both, and I told him to pick up a bottle of wine from finewines.com. While he was gone I was so horny from the entire day, I had to get my vibrator out and masturbate. It was a really good session, in fact I was in the throws of cumming for about the fifth time when I heard Eric return. He walked into the bedroom and saw me spread out on the bed, with my vibrator in my cunt, and I was absolutely dripping wet. I told him before we ate, he had to clean me up with his tongue, but first I wanted him naked, with nothing on but his cock cage. Again his cock was straining for room, and dripping some pre-cum, even though it wasn't anywhere near hard! Again he begged for release, only to be again told no. Eric ate me out like it was his last meal, I must have cum at least three more times, just laying there, enjoying every minute of it.

Around midnight, we finally ate dinner together, me sitting on the couch, and Eric sitting at my feet. I told Eric that I had brought my restraints, and that he should go make up a bed on the floor, at the bottom of the bed, so I could restrain him to it, but once I was in bed, I knew I was horny again, and really wanted to be pleasured some more, so I told him that he could sleep on the bed with me, but between my legs. I fell asleep having the best orgasm ever!

Will tell you more later! Gotta run out!


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